Argue with flies long enough, and You’ll forget what honey even tastes like
Argue with flies long enough, and You’ll forget what honey even tastes like
A sharper version of that wisdom goes like this:
“Argue with flies long enough, and you’ll forget what honey even tastes like.”
In education, this is not a metaphor. It is a daily reality.
When educators start fighting flies
Education was meant to be about ideas, curiosity, growth, and transformation.
Yet, many institutions today are trapped in endless battles with:
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People who resist learning but demand degrees
Individuals constrained by a limited mindset and myopic perspective
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Faculty who fear growth but defend comfort
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Administrators who prioritize compliance over competence
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Systems that reward attendance over achievement
Over time, sincere educators begin to argue, justify, explain, and defend themselves against mediocrity.
That is when the danger begins.
The silent cost of arguing with mediocrity
Flies are attracted to waste.
Honey attracts bees.
When a visionary educator spends too much time dealing with:
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Chronic complainers
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Habitual underperformers
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Policy manipulators
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Excuse-driven mindsets
they slowly lose touch with why they entered education in the first place.
- Passion turns into frustration.
- Innovation turns into exhaustion.
- Standards turn into compromises.
Worst of all, excellence starts feeling lonely.
Mediocrity is loud, excellence is quiet
Mediocre systems survive not because they are strong but because they are noisy.
They shout:
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“This is how it’s always been done.”
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“Students won’t understand.”
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“Quality is not practical here.”
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“Let’s not raise expectations.”
Excellence, on the other hand, speaks softly:
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Through outcomes
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Through disciplined classrooms
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Through transformed lives
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Through silent credibility
When educators start responding to every buzz of mediocrity, they stop creating honey.
The tragedy of normalized underperformance
In many educational spaces today:
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Poor teaching is tolerated
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Shallow learning is celebrated
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Degrees are issued without depth
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Accountability is seen as cruelty
Mediocrity becomes normal.
And when mediocrity becomes normal, excellence looks arrogant.
This is how flies convince bees that honey is unnecessary.
Why some educators burn out, not because they are weak
Good educators do not burn out because they work hard.
They burn out because they argue too long with people who never intended to grow.
You cannot teach someone who:
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Is proud of ignorance
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Is allergic to effort
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Confuses freedom with indiscipline
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Sees education as a transaction, not transformation
At some point, wisdom demands strategic disengagement.
Stop arguing. start creating honey.
The solution is not to fight mediocrity louder.
The solution is to outgrow it.
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Build ecosystems where excellence is non-negotiable
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Invest time in learners who are hungry, not lazy
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Design systems that reward merit, not convenience
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Protect your intellectual and emotional energy
Flies will always exist.
But honey must still be made.
A message to educators who still care
If you are an educator who feels frustrated, unheard, or exhausted this message is for you:
- Do not dilute your standards to be accepted.
- Do not lower your voice to match noise.
- Do not trade honey for arguments.
Excellence does not need approval. It needs protection.
Final thought
Arguing with flies may feel necessary in the moment.
But if you stay there too long, you will forget:
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The joy of teaching
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The thrill of learning
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The taste of intellectual honesty
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The purpose of education
And that is the greatest loss an educator can suffer.
Choose honey.
Let the flies buzz elsewhere.
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